Some people in our lives….A thought by Hemangi Naik:

Ever wondered why some people in our life are nice to us at some point of time and not at other times?

Well...some people become your friends with you cos of the mutual compatibility you'll share along with attraction to your persona.

But there is a deeper thought which I would like to highlight.

Some instances to highlight why people are fond of you and are 'good friends' with you at some time and not at other times.

->They seek your attention when they don't get it from others. They want love and affection from you when they feel lonely or advices and moral support when they are surrounded by problems in their life.

You are there for them during those times. They call you their best pals and even say that you are a sibling to them at that point. You go out of the way to make them feel good.You care and love them and treat them like a sibling. But with time, this sibling love fades...those people forget all that you have been to them..all the love,care is forgotten coz they meet new people in their life who hang out with them,party and give them expensive gifts. So the value of friendship changes!! You are forgotten...its hurts a lot but you have to move on thinking that the one you cared for is happy in life w/o you.

->Some people especially of opposite sex are too attracted to you..And if you have some feelings for them..than it could lead to something that's called "Infatuation". You somehow love them for what they are. But they are with you just for aesthetic purpose ie sheer pleasure. When they dislike something that you do which according to them is a crime...they wish to have you out of their lives. So that shows your importance in their lives.

So here I have to emphasize on the fact that not everyone who you think is closest to you....ACTUALLY IS CLOSEST TO YOU!! Its just a hallucination which you have. Only people you can truly say who care for you despite lots of clashes and cold wars are YOUR OWN PARENTS. They will never show you the door when you need them the most. Rest all relationships in this world have no validity. Can expire anytime.....